DEVELOPING BRAINS NEED ATTUNED PARENTS AS MUCH AS THEY NEED NUTRITION

Developing brains need loving interaction, attuned parents, and touch as much they need nutrition. Early interactions set up the basis for expectations, self perception, self regulation, and relationships throughout life.

This video clip on Harry Harlow’s famous study demonstrates the critical need for security.


The amazing research explained in the following article, clearly shows the powerful influence that results from positive early care giving experiences: Good Parenting Triumphs Over Prenatal Stress.It is reassuring for expecting parents to know they can have this positive influence through a responsive and loving early relationship for their baby.

We can no longer let this information be ignored. This research ignites my desires to share all of this even more deeply (if that is possible!). My dream is to have the parent of every newborn learn how to easily provide the consistent care taking and loving interaction their baby NEEDS!  

So below are a few interaction tips from the Love Your Baby packet with brain development information from the baby’s perspective for you to share with every parent you know.


LOVING ME CALMS ME
Realize that loving me does NOT spoil me. Show the love you feel for me through all of the interactions we have together.

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Taking care of my needs does not “spoil” me. Comforting me when I need you helps me learn to trust that you will take care of my needs. I will be calmer as my brain learns I can expect you to take care of me.

SHOWING YOU THE ATTENTION I NEED
Notice how important your attention is to me. Tune into how I let you know when I need comforting or just a fun connection with you.

Brain Insight
Attention and contact with you is what matters most in this stage of brain development. The first 18 months are the most important for the foundation of my emotional development.

WHAT DO I LIKE?
Notice what I like and respond to. Try to tune in to the level of activity I seem to need. If I seem active, do a more playful activity. When I want to be calm, read a story, hold me close, or sing a lullaby to me. 

Brain Insight
My brain is not developed enough to adjust to different activity levels easily on my own. I really need you to match your behavior to my needs.

This is what every baby needs and wants every adult in their life to understand!

For more loving interaction ideas from the Love Your Baby brain packet in English or Spanish!

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STRESS AND TRAUMA IMPAIR BRAIN DEVELOPMENT WHILE HEALTHY ATTACHMENT PROMOTES IT

Scientific evidence proves that stress and trauma impair optimal brain development while healthy attachment promotes it. A primary caregiver must be tuned into the baby's needs to create healthy attachment. An attuned relationship must be achieved. 

This article shares information on a study that demonstrates the long term outcomes that are affected by relationships in the first year.   

Let's do all we can to continue to promote the critical importance of attachment and early brain development.  


Love Your Baby provides easy ideas on how parents can establish this attachment.  

SECURE ATTACHMENT AFFECTS SOCIAL AND THINKING SKILLS

“Even very young developing brains need much more than physical caretaking. Babies also need sensitive, loving responses from the people around them. If they don't get this, the development of social and thinking skills may suffer.” 

  ~ Dave Riley, Ph.D Child Development Specialist

Read the full article by Dave Riley:  

HELPING TO FORM A SECURE ATTACHMENT

Attachment is so important to the overall healthy development of children!  It is my dream that every baby experiences secure attachment! 

One of the main reasons I developed the Love Your Baby Brain Packet is to provide ideas for parents and caregivers to easily support secure attachment. 

A PRIMARY RELATIONSHIP DURING INFANCY DIRECTLY INFLUENCES SECURE ATTACHMENT

The development of brain areas responsible for interaction, empathy, understanding, love, and responsiveness to others occurs as a result of secure attachment. A primary relationship during infancy directly influences these qualities.

In a blog post I read recently, attachment parenting was described as a trend. My sincere hope is this will not become a common opinion. Attachment is a scientifically proven human need which directly impacts brain connections.  We have come a long way in beginning to make the critical importance of a secure attachment better understood, but still have a long way to go before this is common practice for all children. Hopefully you will help in continuing to make this essential information well known. 

Throughout the week I will post additional information that can assist in creating greater awareness of the positive and long lasting impact that is made through attachment.

Bonding with Your Baby Parenting Advice for Developing a Secure Attachment Bond is an extremely useful article on this topic.

 

HIGHER FUNCTIONING BRAIN AREAS ARE ACTIVITED THROUGH PHYSICAL PLAY

Lots of physical and interactive play activates the higher functioning brain areas. The development of these brain areas enhances cognitive abilities and the ability to better manage emotions and stress. The lack of play may lead to ADHD symptoms. 

Read about an important promotion on play from Discovery Health and KaBOOM.  Why healthy famiies (big & small) need to play 

Easy and fun interactive play ideas that promote the development of these higher brain areas are provided in The Brain Development Series.

BRAIN FACT: The Brain Benefits From Giving

Researchers found the reward centers of the brain are activated as a result of giving to others.

This article in the Chicago Tribune discusses the study.  

You can have the opportunity to have a brain packet donated to the program of your choice with the purchase of a set of brain packets.  Use the promo code in the November braininsights newsletter.

With sincere wishes for a very Happy Thanksgiving!

BRAIN FACT: The Brain Benefits When Feeling Gratitude.

“The very same neuro chemicals are emitted by the brain when we are in a state of gratitude as those produced when we are feeling and thinking happiness, love, being excited and positive. “   

~ Dr. Joe Dispenza, author of "Evolve Your Brain"

You can enjoy a wonderful blog post on gratitude from The Souful Parent  here: